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Psychic Ability & Development 

9/28/2016

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Many people think there’s a difference between a psychic, a palm reader, a tarot card reader, a diviner, and a medium.
 
There is not.
 
You may have heard that all mediums are psychics, but that not all psychics are mediums, and that tarot readers are neither psychics nor mediums.
 
That’s just not true.
 
An authentic psychic is at once a medium and a reader, and the use of a tool such as tarot does not matter; because a psychic is a psychic, or they are not.
 
With this blog entry I would like to provide clarity for once and for all on this subject, so that hopefully, others can steer clear from scam artists and deepen their own intuitive powers.
 
Let’s start with this . . .
 
To be effective, every intuitive or sensitive whether called psychic, medium, intuitive, sensitive, or reader must demonstrate the following:
  • Clairvoyance
    • Extrasensory perceptive sight or vision
  • Clairaudience
    • Extrasensory perceptive hearing
  • Clairsentience
    • Extrasensory perceptive feeling
  • Claircognizance
    • Extrasensory perceptive knowing
 
If you visit a psychic that cannot communicate with your deceased loved ones, then that psychic has underdeveloped skills and will not be able to provide you with an accurate reading.
 
While it is possible for one to see more clearly than to hear, it is not possible to hear without seeing.
 
An effective and developed psychic sees, hears, knows, and feels; all at the same time, they will be able to effectively communicate with past, present, and future spirits (forms of intelligence) and sentient beings.
 
Would you go to an accountant that could only add and not subtract, multiply and divide?
 
No. An accountant must be able to perform all functions of mathematics.
 
Same for a psychic, who must be able to form all functions of extrasensory perception.
 
Guardian Angels
 
One thing I am commonly asked is to give the name of one’s spirit guides or angelic presences.  
 
There are many self-proclaimed psychics who will tell others that their guardian angel is Michael, Gabriel, or Raphael.
 
If you hear this from a psychic, run!
 
Your guardian angel will make itself known to you, and only you; and it may never give you a name. The point is that you don’t want someone who’s been “trained” by an institution or card-reading manufacturer to give you a reading. You want someone who can demonstrate their psychic competency based on their ability to focus solely on you, and not give you a generic or canned reading that features well known angelic figures.
 
Reading cards, palms, pendulums or oracles (tea leaves, shells, stones, etc) is not an academic exercise, it is a natural or inherited talent just as singing, writing, cooking, leading, teaching, or athletics, etc.
 
Psychic development does not come from reading a book or learning from others; it comes from the soul.
 
As much as I would have loved to sing like Whitney Houston, having her teach me would not have given me her talent or gift.
 
I know that many say that we are all born with intuition, and that is true. But let’s face it, I might sing in the shower, but that doesn’t make me a Whitney Houston.   
 
It makes me a good shower-signer.
 
We each have talents and gifts, and the ability to see, hear, feel and know in this unique or psychic way is just one.
 
The Creator (some say God) provides many to humankind.
 
If you feel that you have untapped psychic talent or ability and would like help developing it, please contact me at michelle@enchantingempress.com
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Narcissism & Love: Do We Know The Difference?

9/16/2016

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I’ve tried writing on the topics of loneliness and rejection for quite some time, and have struggled to find the right words to express insightful teachings on both.
 
When, finally, the word narcissism came to me.
 
Hey, now! Don’t let that word shut you down!
 
No shame. No blame. No condescension. No judgment.
 
My purpose here is to facilitate a process of self-study about the ways that we often sabotage our own chances for happiness in love by holding on to thought habits and subconscious patterns that lead to rejection and loneliness in our lives.
 
Interestingly, we create what we say we don’t want!
 
First off, make no mistake about it, happiness is our birthright.  
 
I’m not suggesting that anyone play a totally passive role in life and accept dissatisfaction or discontent.
 
To the contrary, what I’m suggesting is a more proactive approach to happiness and love that doesn’t stem from an underlying view that we are entitled to love or happiness, or that either is a drug: We are not here to remain as tantrum-prone toddlers, or to be addicts.
 
We are here to expand, grow, and become emotionally and spiritually mature.
 
What I’m suggesting is that happiness is not a possession, nor is it a destination, and most importantly it is not about control or gratification of personal desires.
 
Those things include the essence of greed, which only create love starvation in ourselves and by extension the entire world.
 
What I’m here to say is that though many of us have been taught that happiness and love are competitive sports, they are not.  
 
Happiness, just like love, is not authentic when driven by a sense of personal gain, especially at the expense of our own well-being and the desires of others.
 
Happiness and love come from a place of altruism where ego fades away, and the motivation is uncondiitonal love, not the alleviation of loneliness, which is narcissistic and self-serving. 
 
The following bullet points depict the subtle and unconscious ways that narcissism and narcissistic thoughts lead to chronic loneliness and rejection in love and life.
 
If you have found yourself saying things such as these, then rejection and loneliness might be a product of narcissism:
  •  “I can’t help who I love.” 
    • ​This is self-deception at its greatest, folks. If this were true, I’d be in love with my banker who takes my money and any random person on the street. The truth is that we have been given the gifts of intelligence and rational choice; life commands us to use them wisely, so pay attention and be selective about whom you give your heart to. If you think that you can’t control who you give your love to, then you will experience repeated loneliness and rejection—you will give your heart to who you want to love—not  necessarily who wants to love you. Wake up! Fall in love with how others treat you, not because you want them to love you, or you want love from them..
  • "This person just needs someone to love them properly, and they will thrive, be happy and love me.”
    • Nonsense. Does anyone buy a diamond ring that is missing stones in hopes that loving the ring with missing stones will make it shine fully? Falling in love with potential is for real estate agents and home-flippers, not for those looking for love. Be aware of narcissism disguised as heroism, false compassion, or savior mentality. All of these things will destroy you and your self-esteem.
  • “I want what I want.”
    • Then you haven’t grown past a 2-year-old emotionally. You are living in an adult body, but what else?  I’ve raised four children. Need I say more?
  •  “I’m picky.”
    • While it’s good to be selective, be aware of narcissism disguised as pickiness. You will never find a male or female version of yourself, and if you do? Run!
  •  “I can only love that person and no other.”
    • If you’re stuck in the past, narcissism might be blocking you from new opportunities. Each person that enters our lives comes with their own gifts. Open your heart to the gifts they offer. Humility is good for the soul. 
  • "I give my all in love, and just want someone to reciprocate."​
    • Well, did you get to know this person before you gave your all to them? Are you misusing your generosity in hopes of gaining” others' affections? If so, this might be narcissism on your part; you want to be needed.
  •  “I’ve never been able to find the love and connection that I seek.”
    • Why? Are you secretly asking someone to affirm you, or heal your wounds with their attention and love? Guess what? That’s the work of your own soul, not theirs. Healing is why you’re here. No one else can heal you. It is unfair to burden others with your work.  When you do so, they will run away and reject you. Period.
If you feel stuck in matters of the heart and would like more information on my life or relationship coaching services, please contact me at: michelle@enchantingempress.com.
 
I am here to help.
612-567-0493
 
Submitted with love,

​Michelle

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